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Work-life balance - an impossible task as a parent?

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As a parent, finding a balance between work and family life can be particularly challenging. Trying to juggle work commitments and responsibilities with your children's needs and demands can often feel like an impossible task. As a parenting and life coach, I've worked with many parents who struggle with balancing their work and personal life. However, with the right approach, it is possible to achieve a healthy work-life balance* and enjoy the best of both worlds.


Here are some tips and strategies for parents on how to balance work and family life:

  1. Clarify your values and priorities: Understanding your values and priorities is essential in achieving a healthy work-life balance. Make a list of the things that are most important to you, such as spending time with your family, pursuing your career, or taking care of your health. Use this list to guide your decisions and make sure that your actions align with your values and priorities. When I work with clients, I use a coaching tool called the wheel of life, to help them work out their current priorities. When you've done that, then..

  2. Develop a plan: Once you've clarified your values and priorities, it's time to develop a plan to achieve a healthy work-life balance. This plan should include specific goals, strategies, and actions that you can take to balance your work and personal life. For example, you may want to set aside specific times for work and family commitments, or you may want to negotiate a flexible work schedule with your employer. Try to avoid taking on too much, and be realistic about what you can achieve in a day. Set clear boundaries and stick to them, ensuring that your work and personal life don't overlap.

  3. Practice self-care: As a parent, it's easy to neglect your own needs and put the needs of your family first. However, practicing self-care is essential in maintaining a healthy work-life balance. This means taking care of your physical, emotional, and mental health, whether it's by getting enough sleep, exercising regularly, or taking time to relax and unwind. Make sure that your self care is things that you enjoy, whether it's reading, watching a movie, or spending time with friends.

  4. Set boundaries: Setting boundaries is critical in achieving a healthy work-life balance. Yes, I know I mentioned it in point 2 already, but it's critical, so here it is again! Be clear about your availability and make sure that your work and personal life don't overlap. For example, you may want to turn off your phone during family time or set specific times for checking emails.

  5. Delegate: Delegating tasks is another important strategy for achieving a healthy work-life balance. This means sharing responsibilities with your partner, children, or other family members, as well as learning to delegate at work. At home, you may want to hire a babysitter or sit down with your partner, review your mental load, and re-divide household chores. We find it helpful to do this regularly, at least once a year when our kids' afterschool activities change, for example.

  6. Learn to say no: Saying no can be difficult, but it's important to remember that you can't do everything. Learning to say no is essential in achieving a healthy work-life balance. This means being realistic about what you can and cannot do and not overcommitting yourself. For example, you may want to turn down social invitations or additional work assignments that you know will cause you to sacrifice time with your family. This can help you focus on what's most important and prevent burnout.

  7. Take breaks: It's important to take regular breaks throughout the day, both at work and at home. This can help you recharge your batteries and stay focused on your tasks. Make sure that you take time to relax and unwind, whether it's by taking a walk, reading a book, or spending time with your family.

  8. Communicate with your employer: If you're struggling to balance work and family life, it's essential to communicate with your employer. Many companies now offer flexible working arrangements, such as working from home or part-time hours, which can help you balance your commitments. Don't be afraid to discuss your needs and requirements with your employer, and find out about their family friendly policies.


parent working at computer while her children play behind her

In conclusion, achieving a healthy work-life balance as a parent requires a mix of self-awareness, planning, and action. By clarifying your values and priorities, planning, practicing self-care, setting boundaries, delegating, saying no, taking breaks, and communicating with your manager, you can achieve a fulfilling and balanced life both at work and at home.


As a life coach, I encourage you to take these steps and take control of your life, so you can enjoy both your work and your family. Want to know more? Book a chat, or sign up for my newsletter


*The word balance implies two evenly weighted sides, and that's not what it's like in reality. One area of our life will inevitably take more time, or have a higher priority, at any given time. That's why I prefer to work with the wheel of life, and look at your priorities, and how to achieve those. But for simplicity's sake, I've referred to this as 'balance' in the article. Got a better word? Email me, and I'll adjust the article!

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